Thursday, October 30, 2014

Lance's Blessing Day

I do not love this picture, but I guess this is for posterity so I will post it. This is us on the way into church for Lance's blessing day.  He was blessed on August 3, 2014 in the White Plains Maryland 2nd ward.  It didn't work out to bless him in July because Levin was traveling to Maryland that Sunday and helped our brother-in-law bless Lance's cousin in Ohio that day.  Plus, we always like to bless our babies where they will be living.  We blessed Leah in Nigeria and Autumn in Russia back in "our" ward, not where they were born.
 Here are a bunch of other pictures I took of Lance from the time we moved to Maryland up until his blessing and the last two are a week or so after his blessing day.  (So basically, July and most of August)




 I am so lucky that he likes the car seat because he spends a lot of time in there.  We take Leah to school and pick her up so at least twice a day we have to buckle him up.  I'm not sure why, but this is one of my favorite pictures of him.
 This is a problem most of my kids have.  Their torso is much bigger than their legs.  Here hs is busting his belly out of a shirt while the pants are still too long.  Okay, if this shirt had snaps on the bottom it wouldn't have done this, but most of my kids wear a size larger on top than bottom which makes it difficult to buy cute little outfit sets.
 Watching TV with Daddy.

 I tried to get a picture of one of his first smiles.  Writing this the end of October, I have to say he is my laughiest baby.  Sometimes I'm holding him and just Oliver coming up and talking to me cracks up Lance and he busts a gut laughing.  One day every time Oliver spoke, Lance laughed.  I love it!  Sometimes he even gets a nervous laugh when a stranger is trying to get him to laugh he laughs, but it is like a nervous laugh of I may start crying any second.  What an adorable baby.

Friday, October 24, 2014

We Aren't Farmer's We Just Play Them in Maryland

As I am going through our pictures I realize something - they are almost all in one way or another farm related.  So what better place to start than the farm stuff at home and then in future posts I'll update you on various trips we took to other farms.
Here is teh start of our garden area.  I just love how green Maryland is.

 I always thought I didn't care for blueberries so much.  But Levin and the kids the day before I arrived in  Maryland, went to a pick your own blueberry place by the elementary school.  They were delightful!  So Levin bought me two blueberry bushes and worked the soil to be appropriately acidic for blueberries.  This little bush already had quite a few blueberries on them.  The pick your own closed like 2 days after I got there so we never got anymore.  I'm a little sad because it was actually cheap, unlike some pick your owns that really aren't that great in price.
 Before we moved to Moscow, Levin planted a blackberry plant.  It had a lot of blackberries on it actually and for being only one plant we did pretty well.  Here is Oliver with one day's picking.  At first they were pretty sour, but the later ones were actually getting pretty sweet.  The kids amazed me and always said they liked them even when they'd get a sour one.  Leah would sometimes keep it in her mouth a long time before chewing . . . and they usually only wanted one a day, but every day when we'd pick some they'd dutifully eat one.
 Here are the kids picking blueberries off of our bush.
 Levin also bought me a few raspberry bushes that tiny as they were gave us actually quite a few raspberries this year.  Usually everyone was nice and gave them to me.  Leah thought the raspberries were too furry.
I don't have pictures of all of our garden success, but this was one day.  For only planting two tomato plants we actually ended up getting quite a few tomatoes.  We made one batch of salsa that we canned and we've made a few batches of spaghetti sauce, just to eat right then.  Plus several fresh tomatoes although we won't lie, none of us are HUGE tomato fans.  The corn was a quick grow variety so the ears were pretty skinny, but were tasty.  Green beans we have a lot frozen now.  Levin hates wasted space and had a few green bean seeds left so he just poked them in and around the corn stocks and they grew like gang busters.
 We don't have a picture of the zucchini and Levin ripped them up a little early, but we had several 8 ball zucchini and they were sooo good.  The kids ate those too if there was enough cheese on them and I taught Leah my secret that hot vegetables you have to eat them when they're hot.  If you wait too long until they get cold they are yucky.  So she was always begging for her zucchini because there was a while there that we had it almost every night.  I also made quite a few batches of zucchini muffins that I froze extras of, but we've already eaten even the frozen ones.  I don't know how the kids didn't notice the first batch had flecks of green in it.  It was a little garden miracle I guess. :)  But after that they knew they liked them so they ate the other batches.

Below are my garden favorites and the thing I miss absolutely the most from living with my Mom and her garden.  I love fresh peas!  You can buy corn on the cob, but you can't buy fresh peas (at least not really.)  Levi planted a bunch and we have eaten a bunch.  Unfortunately for experimental purposes they were planted at different times so we haven't often had enough at a time to freeze much, but we have a few.  Mostly I have just pigged out eating them fresh.  I have gone wrong somewhere with my kids though because when I ask them to eat some peas they ask me if I can cook them first.  AAAH!  They are soooo good raw!!
 I tried to take a close up where you could see all the pods, but typing this I'm not sure it worked so well.
Farmers also have animals!  This was one of those moments wehre I was like, hey, let's take a picture and I don't have to run all the way back in the house for the camera - I have my phone!  Well . . . turns out the case I have makes the flash reflect a little funny so our night shots don't turn out so well.  I know this isn't super flattering of Levin with his eyes closed, but it does show us how HOT and HUMID it is here in Maryland.  At least in the summer.  My hair is not curling so well now that it is cooling down.
Here is our calf who has had multiple names.  The calf we had when we lived in Maryland last time had a name of Milky Way so it took a long time for Levin to remember to call the calf "Woody" (you can guess Oliver named him.)  By the time we got his name right we realized he was really a she and so Oliver changed her name to Jessie (Toy Story movie) but now we all forget and still cal her Woody.  Oh well.  I doubt she will have gender identity issues.
 Woody/Jessie was so sick when Levin bought her that sometimes she could hardly stand.  She had scours (is that how you spell that?) and had to be "nursed back to health" so to speak.  I hadn't fed a calf a bottle for a long time. S he wasn't too interested in eating at first so the first few days took a little bit of work.  But we didn't kill her off!!  Three cheers for us!  I wasn't too thrilled when Levin talked me into feeding the calf in the mornings when he started work because he leaves so early in the morning.  But it turned out not to be so bad at all.  I hadn't fed a calf a bottle since I was probably 14 years old.  It's like riding a bicycle . . .  ha ha!
 Levin went to Oxford University . . but I'm never as impressed by that as he'd like me to be.  But I am pretty impressed by this trailer he built.  It bumped up his manhood a few degrees for me. :)  It has come in handy and saved us from having to buy him a truck.  He can just use our old Explorer to pull the trailer instead.

 Our renter may have done a few bad things to the pasture and the fence - i.e. he took part of the fence down and he dumped a bunch of junk in the pasture.  He burned a bunch of stuff, but left glass and nails behind in the burn pile.  He laid millings down so Levin can't even fix the fence easily right there where the gap is  So he has Levin-rigged it so that it should be okay for the calf, but probably not some other animals.
 Speaking of other animals - these were our sheep, but we only owned them for a short time.  I don't even know if they got names and if they did, I don't remember them, and I don't care to remember them.  I do not love them.  Or should I say I did not love them as they are most certainly dead by now.  They were in a stall in our barn for a while, but Levin thought theyd' come back in for grain so he let them out . . . oops!  Well . . . . let's just say I spent a lot of time chasing the stupid things and no, stupid is not too strong of a word, but probably stupid should apply to us, than to them.  They were quite smart.  Finally we ignored them for a while.  Then we couldn't find them.  Then I found them in the back corner of the pasture and stuck kind of behind a tree.  We thought it was a little miracle we could give a talk in church on some day.  We got Levin's trailer and the Explorer back there because we thought we could chase them into the trailer easier than anything else.  Well, the little . . . hmm . . struggling to think of an appropriate word here. . . umm  . , terds . . am I allowed to say that? pushed through a weak spot in the fence and were in our neighbors yard.  She was going to catch them for us, she did, . . bah, blah, blah, 2 weeks later one of them impales herself on some rebar in the neighbors barn and off they run . . never to be seen again.  It raised some interesting questions for Leah about death though and I had some sweet experiences with her over it so it was all worth it I guess.  Maybe that is the "miracle" we'll tell in a talk in church some day.
 Did you notice the sheep were ALWAYS standing like that together.  Little best friends of sorts.

 And last to arrive at the Flake homestead were the chickens.  Levin had 6 weeks of Home Leave he had built up that he used before heading back to work.  But his first week back at work guess what arrived in the mail. Chicks!  I had to drive to the post office to collect the little rodents with wings.  I had to use all my courage and have Leah stand by me to tell me, Mom it's just in your imagination they won't eat your fingers.  Then I had to pull them out, dip their beaks in water and put htem in their little brooding place . . is that even the right term?  Gosh - I better talk to Levin before I write blog posts.  But I will not ever finish blogging if I stop to contact him at work or wait until he's home so . . . yeah, they're place with a warming light.  I did it and all chicks are still alive to this day.  They are almost full grown now and should start laying before too long.  We have 16 which is about 10 too many in my opinion, but I think Levin will get rid of 6.  The person supposed to take them hasn't ever come to collect them so who knows when we'll pass them off.  But when I run out of eggs I sure do hope for these little chickens to start laying.  I'll post pictures whne they do hopefully because some of them are supposed to lay easter eggs.  Something for you readers (are there any of you?) to look forward to. :)
 We slowly expanded the space Woody had before letting him/her roam free!
 I think I have almost an identical picture of Leah when she was this age standing in front of our other chickens.  It has been so de ja vu moving here.  Last time we were here, Leah was Autumn's age and Oliver was Lance's age.  It is so strange and lovely to almost relive it.  Only this time I have these other two crazy older kids running around.  But they also help some so it's fun.
The other benefit of having older kids is Levin has someone to play with him instead of borrowing one of his nephews who no longer live here like last time.  He and Oliver practiced their roping skills one day when Levin was teleworking.  This  must be on his lunch break.

 Fun times!

Where to Start? Visitors!

I feel so overwhelmed at trying to organize our pictures and update thsi blog.  One problem is I requested kindly to get an iPhon when we moved back to America.  I wanted a good camera on a phone because so often I didn't have my camera with me when I wanted it, but I almost always have my phone with me.  The problem now is that sometimes we hae two events with pictures on the camera and some on my phone.  And we have a lot more pictures - and a lot more random pictures so I don't know where to start.  But these were clear separate events of the many pictures of the kids so I will start here with them.

My first week back in Maryland, Levin's two nephews from New York came to help Levin get the yard stuff up and running.  It was a pretty mild summer EXCEPT for the week they were here.  Holy cow it was hot.  I felt so sorry for them.  And putting together furniture with Levin is not my favorite activity so I was excited to see them helping Levin build the trampoline and play house.  Hot and sweaty people who are working hard probably don't appreciate me taking their picture so I don't really have any.  That and my first iPhone broke and through misunderstanding got turned back in to Verizon before I got the pictures off.  So . . we may be missing some.

One thing they built was a fence around the garden.
 Their payback besides a little money was a day of tourism in DC as well as a movie where everyone got their own recliner.  I was a little jealous.  But I was so grateful for the help they gave us that I was able to get over my jealousy pretty quickly. :)  They were great house guests too.

Our other visitors were our beloved Dunson family!  They came all the way from Moscow to see us.  Okay, they came to see America on their R&R, but I do feel very loved that they drove a long way from Virginia to see us even though it could only be for a couple of hours.  I don't know what was up with our camera and the ones of the grown ups didn't even turn out at all.  It says it can't be read.  So this is the best I have to offer.  Such great friends!



Saturday, October 4, 2014

Lance is Born

It was a cold and stormy night . . . . I always feel like you have to preface any birth story with that phrase.  I don't know why.
BUT Lance was our only baby that we left in the middle of the night.  I woke up and felt really uncomfortable, but the last little bit of pregnancy is uncomfortable.  I thought I just needed to use the bathroom, so I did, but still felt weird.  I went back to sleep.  An hour later Levin woke up to use the bathroom and while he was gone I thought man, this isn't going away.  Maybe I am preparing to go into labor.  By the time he got back I thought . . no, I think I am in labor.
We let my parents know and packed up quickly.  I just knew I'd end up having to be induced.  I had packed a bag of things, but not super thoroughly.  We got out things together.  I called the hospital to let them know we were coming and we left.  It takes 30 minutes to get to Alamosa and I was very sure I was in labor.  At the first stop light in Alamosa it was red and there were no cars.  I mean seriously, how many other people are at at 4 am?  So Levin just ran the light.
We got to the hospital and they were taking their sweet time.  I wanted to say, you know this is my 4th baby, I'm not faking it, and I know what a contraction feels like.  Do you see me doubled over in pain here while I take a break from putting on the gown.  Finally when we talked further (I'll keep this clean for the faint of heart) they realized I was really progressed.  They called the midwife.  The nurse told me later she started to panic and was dropping things, etc.  I didn't witness that though.  The midwife came and was like, uh . . the anesthetist lives kind of far out so we should probably just tell him not to come.  But I was in such pain and agony - no break from pain in between contractions, just slightly less intense maybe.  They try to keep me somewhat calm, but I confess I wasn't very calm.  This was the worst pain of all the others and I wasn't prepared for natural labor like I was with Autumn.  Strangely, I hadn't decided if I wanted an epidural or not before this.  I just kept feeling like it didn't matter what I decided.  And alas, here we are with it out of my control.  The anesthetist finally arrive and it is too late to give me a regular epidural, but they decide to give me a "walking epidural."  While he is administering it I scream, moan, and push all involuntarily, telling them "he's coming!"  But they are all more focused on keeping me calm enough to get a shot in the back then on listening to what I'm saying.  When I lay back down I feel something weird and tell Levin - uh, can you look down there.  And there is the baby's head out.  One more push and he is here!!  And guess what!?  He's not teeny baby.  He is 10 pounds 9 oz!  And everyone thought Leah was big.  He is almost a full pound bigger!!  It must be something in that San Luis Valley air - both babies born in Alamosa are my biggest.
 He's beautiful.  His head is perfectly round.  I figure it's because he shot out so fast.  Oh yeah, did I mention he was born at 5 am?  Less than an hour after we arrived at the hospital.  Thank heavens for fast labors.  I say it was Shock and Awe though because it was definitely intense!
 And the walking epidural turns out to be perfect.  It took the edge off all the other pains after birth, but I could still walk and this was the first time I didn't pass out or come very darn close to passing out my first time getting out of bed after a delivery.
 Levin was very good while I was probably embarassing him with my screaming.  Here he is with Oliver - the boys - later that day.  I am not sure what is going on with Oliver's hair, but it has to be very short - too short to stand up - or kind of long enough to weigh itself down to lay down flat.

 Grandma took great care of the kids.  I'm sure they were a little naughty for her because that is how they can be once they are comfortable with someone and they know Mom and Dad aren't around to correct their manners.  Grandma was such a great help with the kids and Lance after he was born.  I guess she has 2 more babies than I do, but even though her youngest is 30 she still seems to handle babies better than I do.  Especially with this brut I feel like I'm always holding him like a heavy wiggly object.
 I posted this picture to remind us how difficult it is to get all my kids to look at the camera in a normal way.  Someone is always refusing to look or making silly faces. I can't count how many times they are not looking at me when I tell them to so I can take a picture and they say, "I am!" while they are looking off in the distance or down at their feet.  AAAAH!  Oliver I hope some day one of your kids does this while you're trying to take a picture.
 The beautiful baby at home.  They sent us home only a little more than 24 hours after he was born.  It was a short hospital stay.  I like to be home anyway, but the more kids I get the more I appreciate the just sitting I do at the hospital.  It goes without saying he didn't wear any newborn sized clothes and I think Levin went out and bought him size 1 diapers (not newborn) before we even left the hospital.
 Four kids feels like a big family now.

 A few days later Oliver really wanted Lance to wear his hat so they could take a picture both wearing their hats.  I don't know where the hospital got this hat for Lance, but I am guessing the normal ones wouldn't fit his big head.  Every nurse came in and commented on, so he's the big baby I've heard about.
 We didn't have to get a newborn passport photo like we did with Autumn and Leah, but this bad, but up close picture reminds me of the stress of getting a good newborn passport photo and begging the sleepy baby to open their eyes for it.


 I can't believe I got him to have a pacifier in his mouth.  I tried and tried, but to no avail.  He will only occasionally take one so I gave up not long after.  I am regretting not trying harder as he is quite difficult to get to sleep and stay asleep and I have taken to feeding him to sleep which only works if he's hungry and doesn't get too big of a burp inside.  So, let's just say he's not my best napper.
 I thought he looked so beautiful and peaceful in this picture.
Why won't he sleep this deep now???? 
 I feel like I get a newborn shot with the baby in the hospital when I look dreadful and then I don't get any others for a long time.  So I made Levin take this picture.  I only wish I'd put on make up first, but I shouldn't be so vain.
 I want him to be a genius so we gave him this book.  JK, but I always feel sorry for newborns just laying there.  I don't know how to play with a newborn well.
 I could be wrong, but I think this might have been taken the day we went to the airport to fly to Maryland.  At two weeks he got to fly.  My biggest memory regarding him that day is that I was wearing him in a baby carrier because I had to check his carseat.  All the bending to put shoes on and off going through security must have upset his stomach.  He'd had a stuffy nose so we gave him nose drops and he must have swallowed a lot of snot.  Anyway, I stand up and think, yes, we made it through security with no issues and then blech!  He spit up all over my shirt and his pants.  Lovely, green snot laced milk nastiness.  The good thing is it didn't even really bother me.  He's the one, riding so close to me, that had to smell me all day.  And he blocked others from seeing how nasty I was.  And he was pretty much an angel the rest of the trip if I remember correctly.  I do remember he miraculously took a pacifier while I found a place to feed him in the airport.  I don't remember wanting to cry because he was being bad so he must have been okay.  What a sweet baby!